hi
im posting this.. im a 28 yr old disabled woman. i have a few things wrong. mobility problems and severe fibromylagia where i can barely move . the pain is severe
also a long term chronic disease ive been dealing with MRSA. wich is highly contagous and im very weak, shaky, chills, have skin pain because of it
so that leaves me disabled and i cant work, i cant even function normally such as sleep at night because of pain. even suppermarket shopping is difficult and im often stared at because i have to stop and take breaks or cant push the heavy shopping cart and need to leave the store
ive been sick with mrsa for a few years because i live with my parents and my family is colonized with mrsa and their house is infested with mrsa and it keeps me sick and unable to work or do most things
i know if i leave their house ill get rid of the mrsa dn be able to start working on recovering the rest
another problem someone here said is that. even tho im 28 my father got adult guardianship over me a few years ago before i got sick. then when i was trying to fight the guardianship i got very sick in their home i was forced to live in
can i still make a run for it and leave anyways, lets say i find a friend to go stay with. if i run away from my parents house without them knowing can i go live somewhere else or in another state? without their permission
because the problem is its unhealthy for me to live in their house because of my weak immune system and mrsa. theyre keeping me sick/. and im also 28 so thats not normal for me to be there, i should be married by now or have my own apartment
i dont have a mental disability so my father only got apointed guardian because i had a serious injury and couldnt show up at court to defend myself an he commited perjury by lying to everyone involved in the case, including the cout apointed lawyers and psychologist
he told them i have mild autism, wich is uncurable and they believed him. but i dont have autism. he also told them im suicidal and a drug addic, other drastic things wich are not true either. ive actually never taken drugs or misused anything
so because he lied and convinced all these people of the lies with no one on my side telling the truth, the judge wrote that im mentally incapacitated and assigned my father to be guardian. wich is for life
i cant appeal it i think because how in the world can i convince a narcissistic judge that he wrote i was autistic and mentally incapacitated when it wasnt true. that might bruise his ego, and people like that dont like to admit theyre wrong
i also do have some social anxiety, i get nervous sometimes around high stress situations such as courts. but its not a disabling social anxiety. its not something that will prevent me from working in life. but it may make me look sometimes socially awkward in high stress situations, so its hard for me to stand up for myself in court. but i do not have any form of autism.
i was told by mental health professionals that i saw seperately after my father got the guardianship, without him knowing and they told me i dont have any mental illness or any other mental disability and they are surprised that my father got guardianship
so im not mentally disabled, he dosnt even care for me or do anything for me, i only get some financial assistance such as small amounts of spending money from my parents. but so do many non disabled adults in their 20s these days, such as my older siblings
can i get up and leave my parents house and move away against their will, since he has the guardianship papers ? even tho i have no trouble with decision making
because staying in their home is life threatening , since their home is keeping me sick with a deadly disease and i need to live alone and be isolated in order to be well enough to work
also what are my rights as a court ordered "incapacitated adult"? because my father is guardian
am i allowed to apply for a job, can i marry? , can i travel on vacations without my parents permission? can i adopt children? can i sign a lease? can i move out of state, buy a home? can i get a bank loan?
the mental health professionals i spoke to obviousely know he lied , so he got guardianship for selfish reasons such as to control me or be abusive
isnt there a crime called perjury? can i have my father arrested for perjury if i gather evidence? that he lied with malicous intent
can i have the court psychologist arrested? because he also lied in court because he wrote down everything my father told him on paper and if it was true and didnt check to see if it was true. and its slander against me now with no truth. for example he wrote down that im a drug addict even tho ive never taken drugs or had an addiction. he also twisted words arond that i said to him to make me look bad. such as saying i told him i was born outside the us, wich is not true and id never say that (he wanted to make me look crazy)
yea id go to the police or abuse adult protective services, but last time i did that they tried to put me in a psychiatric hospital to remove me. and i dont want to go to a psychiatric hospital, especially if im contagous an can get everyone sick on the floor even if i have my own room.
they said the only thing they can do for me since my father has mental health letters, court orders against me saying im mentally ill, then they told me all they can do is put me in apsych ward for 3- 12 months to wait on a waiting list for a group home housing for mentally disabled people
wich for me is INNAPROPRIATE. i absolutely wont put myself through that, to wait in a locked floor with seriousely mentally disturbed people and unhappy and probably scared to, just because i want to move away from my parents house because im an adult
i doubt moving to a locked claustephobic psych ward with unstable people aroun me will brighten my life right now, and i need what makes me happy, and a bit more cont
to gypsy sorry i said narcisisstic judge, he probably was misinformed and only got a one sided view presented to him. so how would he know what was a lie. but im just so angry at the judge, ie had unbearable stress for almost 4 yrs because of this. wondering if ill ever have a normal life, wondering how it makes it harder for me to get away from the abuse. its traumatising
its just not fair and i have alot of worry about it,why did my father get guardianship if he didnt raise me, barely knows me, has been very abusive to me and put me through something that rymes will bell
even years before the court order
its no one fault he lies, manupilates people and convinces people shocking things
but its me who suffers for it