


rude parents?
I have a 5 year old. For her happiness as well as mine, I hire a sitter when attending events that I don't deem to be child-friendly. I also don't f...
I have a 5 year old. For her happiness as well as mine, I hire a sitter when attending events that I don’t deem to be child-friendly. I also don’t frequent adult places when hanging out with her. It’s unfair to her to expect a child of this age to sit through a lecture on modern art or sit for hours at a coffee house.
I moved to a new town and parents here seem to not to understand this. I go for date night at a nice sushi place and parents are screaming as their kids refuse to pipe down. I go to a coffee house with work and next to the college students are women with screaming infants and toddlers. I went to the grocery store this morning. A child of about four started throwing a terrible temper tantrum and the mother started swearing at him in the middle of the store. My daughter was in the cart and I simply did not know how to respond to this. What is the right way to deal with these rude parents? I’ve joked that I should just stop wasting money on sitters, but…
I don’t consider a grocery store an "adult place." That experience is what made me come here. I have the general sense that parents who disrespect their children like that create disrespectful children. Look. There are lots of people in a store. Most parents walk around with their kids tantrum-free. I also don’t think tantrums are appropriate after a certain age. My daughter would not dare and I take her at least once a week.
I’m not rich. A sitter does not have to cost an arm and a leg. There’s a sweet girl next door who has a little sister of about 8 who adores Grace. She comes back feeling like the very mature big girl she wants to be, hot pink mani-pedi included. I pay an hour for an average of about 4 hours a week.
I’m a newly single parent working f/t no less. My kid (and the kids of most people) manage to behave.
There are exceptions, but a rested child with parents who believe in discipline and expect good behavior will generally not experience these issue