Comments on: help me please not sure how to take the next step? http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm GoCart Design, Building and Racing Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:01:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: cs http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3046 cs Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:03:19 +0000 http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm#comment-3046 >"I don't know if I can tell my therapist " Are you selective about what you see your therapist about? A couple of things, it appears you have other issues in addition to this specific incident. I would suggest that you get an appointment with your therapist as soon as possible to help you sort what's going on here. >"I don’t know if I can tell my therapist "

Are you selective about what you see your therapist about?

A couple of things, it appears you have other issues in addition to this specific incident. I would suggest that you get an appointment with your therapist as soon as possible to help you sort what’s going on here.

]]> By: Billy Bob http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3047 Billy Bob Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:03:19 +0000 http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm#comment-3047 Call the Cops. Call the Cops.

]]> By: El Jefe http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm/comment-page-1#comment-3048 El Jefe Fri, 30 Jul 2010 00:03:19 +0000 http://www.gocartracing.info/help-me-please-not-sure-how-to-take-the-next-step.htm#comment-3048 Part of this is him, and part of it is you. He's a little creepy, and has made unwanted advances. Ok, he got banned from the store. That means the people at the store want to protect you from him, which is good. They're doing the right thing. If he shows up again, the police will be called, and he will have to leave or go to jail. People are trying to help you. The part of this that is you is your reaction. It's reasonable to be a little creeped out about this, but your reaction is out of proportion to the harm he has caused. A little apprehension is also normal, but you sound almost paralyzed by this. Please do your best to deal with your fear. Nobody at work is blaming you for this. Please don't let this man keep you from going to work...don't let him win! And also, please try to talk to your therapist about this. Your therapist can't help you if they don't know what you're dealing with. You might find that just talking to your therapist about this makes it seem a little less frightening. Try to find the courage...please. Best of luck to you. Part of this is him, and part of it is you.

He’s a little creepy, and has made unwanted advances. Ok, he got banned from the store. That means the people at the store want to protect you from him, which is good. They’re doing the right thing. If he shows up again, the police will be called, and he will have to leave or go to jail. People are trying to help you.

The part of this that is you is your reaction. It’s reasonable to be a little creeped out about this, but your reaction is out of proportion to the harm he has caused. A little apprehension is also normal, but you sound almost paralyzed by this. Please do your best to deal with your fear. Nobody at work is blaming you for this. Please don’t let this man keep you from going to work…don’t let him win!

And also, please try to talk to your therapist about this. Your therapist can’t help you if they don’t know what you’re dealing with. You might find that just talking to your therapist about this makes it seem a little less frightening. Try to find the courage…please.

Best of luck to you.

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