What should i do with my kids? Answers URGENT?
Hi. My sister decided to take my 5 kids and her 2 year old camping over the weekend and they came back today. My kids are 4, 6, 10, 11 and 13 (ALL GIRLS BTW.) The 11 and 13 year old went through puberty i’ll tell you why thats important later. Here’s what my sister told me about this "adventure", well lets start from the begining, They were packing up for 1 weeks trip. They filled up 2 cars. As soon as we got up there Nicole (11), Jaymee (10) and Britney (13) went to the bathroom and complained about how dirty it was and was recording on the phone saying "the camp store is cleaner than those bathrooms". Then they were talking in hillbilly voices (my sister asked them to stop but they didnt and thought it was hilarious) basically the whole time. Then she took them to the park and they were argueing over the teet or tot and her daughter got a splinter and it strated pouring rain it was horrible. Then Nicole wanted to sleep by Britney tonight (they stay up and talk and giggle so NO I didnt want them being grouchy so i told my sister no). Nicole had the biggest fit ever and cried and said "your not the boss of me" and "im not eating " and "my mom made me come on this trip i didnt want to i hate you" (she had the option btw) and she called me and asked to be picked up (I refused to drive because the campsite was 2 1/2 hours away and it was 7pm). So then they ate dinner and they went to the creek now my sisters daughter was scared to walk in the water and Jaymee was holding her and asked help from Nicole and Britney but they just left them and went up more in the creek, (how inconsiderate). Then they went to roast marshmellows and burnt everyone of them ON PURPOSE so it was in the fire (and laughed and wasted 5$ worth of marshmellows). So they went into the camper and there bed was being help up by 2 steel rods and Nicole and Britney jumped ON PURPOSE (they know not too) and one cracked (the camper was 650$). Then we went to bed from 9pm-12:30am they were up ALL NIGHT (I sent sleeping pills with them and my sister gave it to them so i dont know why they were up) shaking the camper, bouncing up and down, making fart noises, whispering, laughing, getting in and out of the camper being OBNOXIOUS. Then at 4:30am Nicole was yelling "lets gather around the campfire and sing our campfire song" in a hillbilly voice and woke my sisters daughter up. It was also pitch blackness in the tent. So the next day my sister said they fell asleep around 5:30am and woke em right back up at 6am and ate breakfast and went golfing (mini golfing) and she wasted the 10$ on my kids (anyone above 2 is 10$) cuz they were being smarta$$es and using their hands (video recording it) and going on seperate courses cuz they didnt wanna wait for the little kids. They said my sister in a hillbilly voice "wasnt that a great game of golf arnt we the best golfers" Then they went past a sign that said have a beary good day and theyre like "aunt nicky r u having a beary good day" and saying beary after EVERYTHING they said. We told them to pick up the ground before we left they threw everything in the fire and video recorded it (That made my sister furious and they were being sarcastic with it). So my sister told them to go to the car. They are the most disgustingest people ever. They didnt bring deodarent ON PURPOSE and lifted their arms up (they were sitting there for 45 minutes and doors wer shut) Her windows were foggy and she had to air out the car she made them leave all the doors open and sprayed them with febreeze for 10 minutes. Then Nicole lifted her arms up again while we they were driving I yelled at her. Nicole and Britney thought it would be fun to teach the younger ones about knocking over port a potty’s and chasing golf carts and back of trailers and VIDEO RECORD IT. (I saw the videos on Nicole’s computer). They went up on Monday night and just came back now around 10:30pm. My sister said they were also video recording the bathrooms and not sharing the tenis ball rackets with the little kids and teasing them and making fun of camping ALL TOGETHER. Theyre like "when ya go campin ya talk like this). My sister said DONT LET THEM SLEEP TONIGHT. She is NEVER taking my kids again EVER. When I was referring to the little kids i was reffering to my 4 year old and my sisters daughter. My 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old daughers ARE THE PROBLEM. I dont know what I should do? What do you think? The 11 and 13 year old share a room. Also in 2 weeks my sister is driving my 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old to the Britney Spears concert thats 5 1/2 hours away (IN ANOTHER STATE). The tickets were already purchased (NO REFUND) and 350$ PER seat. What should i do to EACH of them? They also made my mother buy these t-shirts they designed for the concert 67$ EACH and buy them 40$ black shorts EACH and bought Brit and Nicole 1

What happend was, that he was pushing a cart, and he was going through a doorway, these door frames are made of metal since it’s a meat company, i suppose it for easier cleaning… So what happend was that he was pushing the cart through the door, and accidentally was leaning too much on his left side, he thought he was going to make it through, but didn’t, he tried to stop before he went through, but since this cart was carrying 500 lbs of meat, he couldn’t stop it on time. The cart slammed on the frame and pushed his hand to where he ripped the top skin of his hand off, and ripped 3 tendons and chipped a piece of bone. Accidents happen to everybody, and he tried to stop, but the cart was just too heavy. If it was a regular door, it probably would have just bruised his hand, probably peel a little skin, but not to the point of getting 6-8 stitches on his tendons and 40 stitches to close up the wound on his hand. Apparently this door needs something to cover the edge of the razor sharp corner..The doctor also said he will probably need another surgery to remove scar tissue, and therapy to recover movement of 3 of his fingers. The boss doesn’t want him to get the workers comp, because quote "66% of your wage is nothing" He offers him to go back to work, and get his full time wage and do very little work that only requires his good uninjured hand. He has to go back tomorrow otherwise workers comp will kick in.. So my question is, What should my husband do??

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go.
Then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened.
But she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs. So as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen. So I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager.

So she told me just to wait until she got off the phone. Also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone. She told me that my boss told me to make a statement with as much details as I can. Also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me.

I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting.

I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time I just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not. I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her. I want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body.

what should I do? i don’t see my therapist until next Thursday and don’t see my other doctor until September should i show both of them the statement that I typed up for work?? what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me a lot scared to go to work because problem. Very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because I feel like he is going to threaten me again.
I know I should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft of me.

why do I feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to, also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would I go about doing this? , i started cutting again and can,t stop due to this problem.
I was supposed to call my work and talk with the assistant manager but I just can find the power inside me to do it yet I believe I am still worried about what is to come with the up coming police report and other things i have to do in order to be free form this crazy person is trying to hurt me
need more answer and what should i keep in the statment for work and what should i deleate

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts he was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form and while I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then today around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again

If so can they also take the cost of the item out of your final check? See I work at a Chicken Fast Food place and I was pushing the bird cart (a big metal cart where we batter the chicken) back where it belongs and accidentally knocked over the tea containers. My boss said that the cameras proved I did it on purpose but I didn’t. I was fired and they said they were going to take the cost of replacing it out of my check.

a few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this and i started cutting again and can,t stop please no rude comments please ok so today i saw this son of a bitch Again i try ed to get his license plate number but he drove away to fast help me i don’t know what to do i feel like he is stoking me at work and i cant sleep at night because of this
my work is doing nothing about this.
my work has done thing about this situation what should i do about this i don’t want to go to work tomorrow
i don’t want to go to work tomorrow what should i do

a few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this and i started cutting again and can,t stop please no rude comments please ok so today i saw this son of a ***** Again i try ed to get his license plate number but he drove away to fast help me i don’t know what to do i feel like he is stoking me at work and i cant sleep at night because of this problem
my work is doing nothing about this.
my work has done thing about this situation what should i do about this i don’t want to go to work tomorrow
i don’t want to go to work tomorrow what should i do

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts he was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form and while I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this