THIS IS MY PROBLEM.
This school cop, who by the way is like 2 feet taller than me and he is young and intimidating is always staring at me. no joke. i have caught him but since i don’t like staring back at people i turn away really easily. once me and my sister (who works in the school) were sitting in one of the benches outside and the cop guy comes in his police car and parks it right in front of us. have no idea why he did that but he stayed in the car for like a few minutes and then went inside the school building. Like in the lunch line (there is 2 lunch lines) if I go on 1 line he moves to that line when he sees me and when I go on the other line he moves to that one. When my friends and I sit down on a table he moves all the way from one side of the cafeteria to the other. I have noticed. Even outside when he is "patrolling" the area in a golf cart, i see catch him looking at me.
I have not told my sister about this. I bet she won’t believe me. any suggestions?
By the way, if this helps.. I’m in Athletics. I’m a girl of course. And I am in High School. I’m just asking for ways to make this guy understand that I don’t like him, I never will and that he better stop it! I have tried ignoring it but I just can’t. I feel uncomfortable and I don’t know if its my imagination or what but… I don’t know how to explain this… I need advice.
Any ways to make him stop staring? Thanks
just to let u knw..

-i don’t dress like a slut like others who do with their boobs popping out of their v-necked shirts.
-i dress like a normal person.
-i wear t-shirts, jeans. u knw. typical stuff.

and i am 15. so yeah. and how am i supposed to know how old that cop is? i just described him by how he looks.

THIS IS MY PROBLEM.
This school cop, who by the way is like a foot taller than me and he is young and intimidating is always staring at me. no joke. i have caught him but since i don’t like staring back at people i turn away really easily. once me and my sister (who works in the school) were sitting in one of the benches outside and the cop guy comes in his police car and parks it right in front of us. have no idea why he did that but he stayed in the car for like a few minutes and then went inside the school building. Like in the lunch line (there is 2 lunch lines) if I go on 1 line he moves to that line when he sees me and when I go on the other line he moves to that one. When my friends and I sit down on a table he moves all the way from one side of the cafeteria to the other. I have noticed. Even outside when he is "patrolling" the area in a golf cart, i feel his stare.
I have not told my sister about this. I bet she won’t believe me. any suggestions?
By the way, if this helps.. I’m in Athletics. I’m a girl of course. And I am in High School. I’m just asking for ways to make this guy understand that I don’t like him, I never will and that he better stop it!
Any ways to make him stop staring? Thanks

The question before read "guy" but since I’m dealing with an "adult" I rephrased the Question.
@?-how is he gonna hide his feelings??
@?- you know? he sometimes wears sunglasses outside. when he is in the golf cart "patrolling" the area and staring at me.

Thanks to everyone who answered.

Ok well when I tell you this you probably wont believe me but I swear its all true. Well the dream started out sort of like a movie would. There was a supermarket and 3 teenagers, a red headed girl and 2 guys(one was Edward Cullen, I SWEAR!!) And they were caught shop lifting and sent out of the store. Then me and my two friends, I don’t know who they are in real life, were leaving the store and we were in the exit area, you know the part that is like glass, and all of a sudden there was this vampire guy and he was grey and flying and he went into the entrance glass area and went into the supermarket and just started killing everyone. Me and my friends were terrified so we hid behind a row of shopping carts and after a few minutes they decided to make a run for it but they were killed too, and I was all alone. I was the only one that lived and like 1000 people died. And police came but the "murderer" got away. And then I was in the hospital, not because I got hurt but I was a bit traumatized. And Edward was there and so were a bunch of nurses and an adult guy. And they were just asking me questions and acting like a psychiatrist but they weren’t. And then I was walking around a bit and they asked me where the "murderer" hurt people and I put my hand on the right side of my neck and started crying because he like bit them. And Edward just like hugged me for awhile and took care of me. I got over it within a few days. And me and Edward just kept hanging out and he was protecting me. And we drove around and like were in love. It was very strange. And he met my mom, and she adored him and he thought she was wonderful as well. So the dream started out sort of upsetting and took a turn for the better. So any ideas on what any of this means??? Because I am so confused about it!!!
Haha yes I do love the Twilight series, but I haven’t read the books in about 2 months I did watch the movie a week ago though… hmmm, lol

When I woke up this morning and went to take Sukki on our morning routine potty, I noticed that she was walking funny. At first I hoped that she managed to have her leg fall asleep like us humans do. But after watching her for a few minutes, I began to fear it was something more. Her back end looked like it was drunk. I directly took her to the vet and arrived five minutes after they opened. She has a slipped disc and her back end is partially paralyzed. I am so heartbroken. The vet gave her an IV of steroids, and I am now giving her steroid pills twice a day. I have to watch her for the next two days to see if there is a reaction to the steroids. She is also on "lock down" and cannot leave her crate for two months, except to potty. When it is potty time I am carrying her to the yard and using a long rolled up towel as a sling so that I can "carry" her back end while she "walks". I do not know if I am doing this correctly. She has not gone #2 yet either. Sukki and I are meeting the vet again on Saturday (during the vet’s day off, I am so grateful she is coming in to see Sukki) to see if the steroid pills have helped any, and to discuss muscle relaxers, etc. The Vet has also warned me that surgery, total paralysis, incontinence, and one of those wheelie-carts may be in Sukki’s future. I am hurting so badly knowing that my puppy is in pain, and doesn’t know what is happening to her. She depends on me for quality of life, and I don’t know how to make it better. I got Sukki a new, bigger crate that opens from the top. The side fully opens like a garage door too. It is large enough for her padding and pillow and blankets I have put in for her to snuggle comfortably, and also has room for her food and water bowls. It is quite large but is on wheels, so that I can take her into different rooms with me and never miss a chance to pet or watch her. I have cleared my school and work schedule for the next two days to be with my puppy girl. The vet told me that even if Sukki fully recovers, she is to never jump onto a couch or take a stair ever again. I have cried so much today. I am so very scared that I may have to put my little girl down in the near future. I always thought that if Sukki came into these daschy problems, that she would be older and already had an energetic life. But she is five years old and has such a special, curious, playful and loving personality (that is all her own) that I don’t want taken away from her. I remember when I first got her, and knew I loved her, and she became my little girl, I told myself that I would do anything to keep her with me…even if it meant one of those back-end wheelie-things. But now I am wondering, "What kind of life is that for a dog?" Also, I am a 27 year old college student with only a 0/month income. I cannot afford a surgery. I wish I had the financial means to make anything possible for her, but I dont even have Federal Financial Aid helping me, and that makes me so guilty for not being able to care for my hurting puppy better. As of right now, all I can do is give her love and rest and medication to see if she progresses before I need to make those decisions….but thinking of the possibility physically hurts.

I am hoping that someone’s experience might have some suggestions to pass onto me. I keep petting Sukki and telling her that I will take care of her, but I can’t tell her that everything will be alright. I don’t know what to tell myself either.

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go.
Then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened.
But she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs. So as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen. So I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager.

So she told me just to wait until she got off the phone. Also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone. She told me that my boss told me to make a statement with as much details as I can. Also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me.

I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting.

I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time I just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not. I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her. I want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body.

what should I do? i don’t see my therapist until next Thursday and don’t see my other doctor until September should i show both of them the statement that I typed up for work?? what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me a lot scared to go to work because problem. Very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because I feel like he is going to threaten me again.
I know I should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft of me.

why do I feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to, also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would I go about doing this? , i started cutting again and can,t stop due to this problem.
I was supposed to call my work and talk with the assistant manager but I just can find the power inside me to do it yet I believe I am still worried about what is to come with the up coming police report and other things i have to do in order to be free form this crazy person is trying to hurt me
need more answer and what should i keep in the statment for work and what should i deleate

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts he was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form and while I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then today around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again

Kinda long..but I need advice please!!!!!

My daughter will be 3 in a few months. Most of the time she is just so sweet. HOWEVER, sometimes she can be bossy and rude.

In the store..a man talked friendly to her. She spoke to him for a few minutes..then all of a sudden she SHOUTED "DON’T YOU TALK TO ME!!"

Today in the store a little girl was sitting on the floor, my daughter yelled at her "STAND UP!!!"

The man was bagging our groceries and putting them in the cart for us..my daughter shouted to him"DON’T YOU TOUCH THOSE BAGS!!!"

About the man talking to her. I told her to "be nice" NOW..I don’t really like that I said this. Because I believe we as adults teach children too much to "be nice" "respect your elders" "don’t talk back" This isnt really good…because if a time comes to where an adult oversteps their boundries with a child…(abuse) that child should know that they can..be rude…shout..scream..the child doesn’t have to be polite to these adults. And I want my daughter to know that. If we always say "be nice" then when the child is in danger…they won’t know to try to defend themselfs or fight back.

NOW..this man in the store wasnt overstepping his boundries…he wasn’t getting close to my daughter…wasnt touching her. HOW DO I TEACH THAT SHE NEEDS TO BE POLITE IN GENERAL..BUT CAN STAND UP FOR HERSELF IF SHE NEEDS TOO???

About the girl in the store…I told my daughter..that the girl can sit down if she wants to. She is allowed to sit because it’s her body. Just because you want to stand up, doesn’t mean she has to also.

About the man bagging our groceries..I told my daughter that the man is being very nice to bag our things..and in order to put the bags in the cart…he has to touch them. He is helping us.

SOOOOOOOOO…anyone else going through this?

Anyone know what to do???

Thanks.

The other day my daughter was acting up at the store. I told here to calm down. A few minutes later she started up again. I had a cart full of stuff put the cart off to the side and said were going home for your spanking. I took her home walk in the house and put ger over my knee.
Bare bottom 10 swats.

a few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this and i started cutting again and can,t stop please no rude comments please ok so today i saw this son of a bitch Again i try ed to get his license plate number but he drove away to fast help me i don’t know what to do i feel like he is stoking me at work and i cant sleep at night because of this
my work is doing nothing about this.
my work has done thing about this situation what should i do about this i don’t want to go to work tomorrow
i don’t want to go to work tomorrow what should i do

a few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts. He was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form. While I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this and i started cutting again and can,t stop please no rude comments please ok so today i saw this son of a ***** Again i try ed to get his license plate number but he drove away to fast help me i don’t know what to do i feel like he is stoking me at work and i cant sleep at night because of this problem
my work is doing nothing about this.
my work has done thing about this situation what should i do about this i don’t want to go to work tomorrow
i don’t want to go to work tomorrow what should i do

A few weeks ago this frequent shopper that comes in my work maybe 3 to 4 times a week shops at my work , at first I thought he was just being nice and friendly,then a few weeks later I was out on my schedule time frame for charts he was coming up to me form the parking lot and I was inside the cart area where we gather the carts and bring them back in to the main cart area wear people get the carts form and while I was inside the mini cart area this person comes into the mini cart area and starts talking to me and I forgot what he said before he gave me the hug and then he started saying that he loves me more than once and the he finally let me go and then on july 14th around five thrifty I was going on my break and so I got a soda and then I went and stood in line and then this person comes up behind me and just grabs my upper arm and one of my co workers kind of saw what happen but I am not hundred percent positive that she saw what happen so a few minutes later my other co worker told my supervisor what happen so she paged another checker to relive her so we could talk about that happened but she told me to wait until we got up stairs into my boss office so it would be more private and confidential and so as soon as I go up stairs she unlocked the door and me and her started talk and we where waiting for another one of my co workers to get up stairs so as soon as the other co worker go up stairs I told my supervisor and the other co worker what had happen and so I told her that this guy has been bothering me and he keeps touching me and she asked me if he had touched my breast and I told her no and she told me that she was going to call the store manager and so she told me just to wait until she go off the phone and also she asked to see the receipt for the soda so she could right down the time which I did a few minutes after she go off of the phone she told me that my boss told me to white a statement with as much details as I can and also he is not allowed to shop at the store which I don’t know how long that will before but when I got home my night time supervisor called me to check to see if I got home which I did so a few minutes after I calm down a bit form what had happened to me I called my work back and talked to my night time supervisor and so she wants me to call my work tomorrow and to speak with my assistant store manager, I feel so violated form what he did to me and I basically feel threaded by him and intimated by him and also ashamed of what he did and also insulting, I don’t know if I can tell my therapist this but I feel I need to in order to get through this difficult time i just can’t stop crying over this I wish this was a easy fix but I guess not I feel if I don’t tell my therapist then I am hiding a big secret form her, i want to cut my self bad to the point of leaving a huge scar on my body what should i do i don’t see my therapist until next thursday and don’t see my other doctor until september should i show both of them the statement that i typed up for work and what do i do in the mean time i feel so down and bad help me need a lot of answers scared to go to work because problem please need serious answers no mean answers of insulting answers very upset about this i have not been able to sleep at all last night because l like he is going to threaten me again i know i should Go to the police and get a restraining order against this guy so he doesn’t come within 500 Ft. i am i messing anything in my statement for work or what not need a ton of answers why do i feel like cutting due to this problem by the way my age is 21 years old and i do have witnesses to this to and also i want to take him to court and get him arrested how would i go about doing this