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Help with this dream, I swear I'm not making it up!?

Ok well when I tell you this you probably wont believe me but I swear its all true. Well the dream started out sort of like a movie would. There was a...


 

Ok well when I tell you this you probably wont believe me but I swear its all true. Well the dream started out sort of like a movie would. There was a supermarket and 3 teenagers, a red headed girl and 2 guys(one was Edward Cullen, I SWEAR!!) And they were caught shop lifting and sent out of the store. Then me and my two friends, I don’t know who they are in real life, were leaving the store and we were in the exit area, you know the part that is like glass, and all of a sudden there was this vampire guy and he was grey and flying and he went into the entrance glass area and went into the supermarket and just started killing everyone. Me and my friends were terrified so we hid behind a row of shopping carts and after a few minutes they decided to make a run for it but they were killed too, and I was all alone. I was the only one that lived and like 1000 people died. And police came but the "murderer" got away. And then I was in the hospital, not because I got hurt but I was a bit traumatized. And Edward was there and so were a bunch of nurses and an adult guy. And they were just asking me questions and acting like a psychiatrist but they weren’t. And then I was walking around a bit and they asked me where the "murderer" hurt people and I put my hand on the right side of my neck and started crying because he like bit them. And Edward just like hugged me for awhile and took care of me. I got over it within a few days. And me and Edward just kept hanging out and he was protecting me. And we drove around and like were in love. It was very strange. And he met my mom, and she adored him and he thought she was wonderful as well. So the dream started out sort of upsetting and took a turn for the better. So any ideas on what any of this means??? Because I am so confused about it!!!
Haha yes I do love the Twilight series, but I haven’t read the books in about 2 months I did watch the movie a week ago though… hmmm, lol

Ahhh this made me so mad!?

 

Hey All…
Well earlier today i was at the grocery store with my almost 9 week old baby, & my mom. Well guess what happened!?!? Some guy just grabbed my daughter out of her car-seat!! I had turned around becouse i was talking to my best-friend’s mom she had asked me how my new school was going ( I go to a school for teen-parents), I had my hand on the cart, & the cart was right next to me ( Emma was in her car-seat in the cart). Well some guy just comes up & grabs Emma out of her car-seat! I turn around really fast becouse i had felt the cart move & there he was just holding her! I start yelling at him ( I normaly am a very nice person but this made me mad), & tell him to give me my daughter right now & he has the nerve to ask what he did wrong! So my best-friend’s mom goes up & takes Emma from he’s arms. I told the guy he better leave right now, before I call the cop’s on him. Has this happened to you before? What did you do? Do you think I over-reacted?
I wasn’t really thinking, now that i think about it i should have called the cops, but at that moment i just wanted the guy to get far away from me.
I don’t know what he was planning on doing he was still standing right by the cart & he was an old-looking man so maybe he thought it was okay? I don’t know, i should have called the cops i know but at that moment i just wanted the guy to get far,far away from me.

I live in Michigan…is there any ideas on how to work from home..?

 

I have worked in the medical field for over 10 years, I love my job…but, I am 28 married with two beautiful boys that are 1 and 2. I feel guilty every time I walk out the door to go to work…I want to be there for them…I want to raise them, not my mom. I feel like I am being cheated, my mom got to stay at home with us. I want to work from home, I can’t afford just to be a stay at home mother, unfortunately. I tried the internet surveys…they are all scams…I never got paid. I don’t want to babysit, because it is hard enough to cart two kids around, when doing dr apts (my little one has to see a pulmonary specialist once a month) on top of wellness visits…and so on. Does anybody have any suggestions? Thank you in advance…and I understand that my job may be my only option…which I know I have to deal with it…but, staying at home would be nice, I miss my boys….
10 pnts for best answer! Thanks!

I wish I'd had the nerve to tell her off!?

 

When my son was little, about 3 I think, I had to pick him up from my mom’s house after work, then I had to run a few errands, one of which was stop by the grocery store. Back then (in the mid to late 90′s) they just started coming out with those grocery carts with the built on car seats. Well my son was tired, and cranky, and didn’t want to walk. I thought that if I put him in one of those seats that he would possibly go to sleep (as he always fell asleep in his own car seat) so I asked a clerk that worked there if they had any of those carts with the seats. She said, I guess they’re all taken, look around for one. Why do you want to put him in one anyway, he’s too big for a car seat! Real snotty like. Excuse me, but at three aren’t they still in a booster car seat in the car? It wasn’t any of her business anyways why I wanted to put him in one. It’s not like he was 10-he was 3!! Why can’t people mind their own business? I don’t remember what I told her.
what’s a situation where you wish you had told the person off but didn’t?

How do you feel about parents who have their small children in the Walmart at about 11:00 at nite?

 

I got off work at 10 and headed to Walmart to pick up a few groceries and while I was there, I decided to get a couple of Christmas presents. The whole time I am in the pajama section, I can here this little 2 yr old boy crying non-stop. It goes on and on and on until finally I go to check it out wondering if he as abandoned or hurt.
Well, not only was he there but there were 2 more kids around the ages of 4 and 6 with them. The little boy was crying his head off, tired, runny nose, hot and his parents were shopping. They were oblivious to his squalling.
I guess I could see if it they were picking up some milk or some groceries, but heck no….they were shopping in the underwear, pajama isle. They had a cart full kids and nothing in the cart which was totally needed that late at nite.
I almost snapped and asked them if they thought there little 2 yr old enjoyed being drug around in the middle of a winter nite at the Walmart store, but decided to keep it to myself.
What do you think they were thinking? How can they justify having all these little kids at Walmart way past a 2 yr olds bedtime?
I also need to add, it is zero degrees here. The wind whipping and snow blowing.
Oh yeah, and the mother was dressed in pajama pants under her coat, and house slippers.
…..and if it helps you to understand. I divorced when my kids were 11 mo and 2 1/2 yr old and nothing was so important I had to drag them out into 0 degree temps at 11 at nite with anyone. I think its bad parenting and as far as not being anyones attention, in that case it must be ok to abuse your children in any way you see fit.
Pajama pants in the store as an adult female is just ridiculous. It laziness. My mom would have never skank like that. What next, heading to the parent teacher confrence with a 12 pak. Totally not appropriate.

What should i do with my kids? Answers URGENT?

 

What should i do with my kids? Answers URGENT?
Hi. My sister decided to take my 5 kids and her 2 year old camping over the weekend and they came back today. My kids are 4, 6, 10, 11 and 13 (ALL GIRLS BTW.) The 11 and 13 year old went through puberty i’ll tell you why thats important later. Here’s what my sister told me about this "adventure", well lets start from the begining, They were packing up for 1 weeks trip. They filled up 2 cars. As soon as we got up there Nicole (11), Jaymee (10) and Britney (13) went to the bathroom and complained about how dirty it was and was recording on the phone saying "the camp store is cleaner than those bathrooms". Then they were talking in hillbilly voices (my sister asked them to stop but they didnt and thought it was hilarious) basically the whole time. Then she took them to the park and they were argueing over the teet or tot and her daughter got a splinter and it strated pouring rain it was horrible. Then Nicole wanted to sleep by Britney tonight (they stay up and talk and giggle so NO I didnt want them being grouchy so i told my sister no). Nicole had the biggest fit ever and cried and said "your not the boss of me" and "im not eating " and "my mom made me come on this trip i didnt want to i hate you" (she had the option btw) and she called me and asked to be picked up (I refused to drive because the campsite was 2 1/2 hours away and it was 7pm). So then they ate dinner and they went to the creek now my sisters daughter was scared to walk in the water and Jaymee was holding her and asked help from Nicole and Britney but they just left them and went up more in the creek, (how inconsiderate). Then they went to roast marshmellows and burnt everyone of them ON PURPOSE so it was in the fire (and laughed and wasted 5$ worth of marshmellows). So they went into the camper and there bed was being help up by 2 steel rods and Nicole and Britney jumped ON PURPOSE (they know not too) and one cracked (the camper was 650$). Then we went to bed from 9pm-12:30am they were up ALL NIGHT (I sent sleeping pills with them and my sister gave it to them so i dont know why they were up) shaking the camper, bouncing up and down, making fart noises, whispering, laughing, getting in and out of the camper being OBNOXIOUS. Then at 4:30am Nicole was yelling "lets gather around the campfire and sing our campfire song" in a hillbilly voice and woke my sisters daughter up. It was also pitch blackness in the tent. So the next day my sister said they fell asleep around 5:30am and woke em right back up at 6am and ate breakfast and went golfing (mini golfing) and she wasted the 10$ on my kids (anyone above 2 is 10$) cuz they were being smarta$$es and using their hands (video recording it) and going on seperate courses cuz they didnt wanna wait for the little kids. They said my sister in a hillbilly voice "wasnt that a great game of golf arnt we the best golfers" Then they went past a sign that said have a beary good day and theyre like "aunt nicky r u having a beary good day" and saying beary after EVERYTHING they said. We told them to pick up the ground before we left they threw everything in the fire and video recorded it (That made my sister furious and they were being sarcastic with it). So my sister told them to go to the car. They are the most disgustingest people ever. They didnt bring deodarent ON PURPOSE and lifted their arms up (they were sitting there for 45 minutes and doors wer shut) Her windows were foggy and she had to air out the car she made them leave all the doors open and sprayed them with febreeze for 10 minutes. Then Nicole lifted her arms up again while we they were driving I yelled at her. Nicole and Britney thought it would be fun to teach the younger ones about knocking over port a potty’s and chasing golf carts and back of trailers and VIDEO RECORD IT. (I saw the videos on Nicole’s computer). They went up on Monday night and just came back now around 10:30pm. My sister said they were also video recording the bathrooms and not sharing the tenis ball rackets with the little kids and teasing them and making fun of camping ALL TOGETHER. Theyre like "when ya go campin ya talk like this). My sister said DONT LET THEM SLEEP TONIGHT. She is NEVER taking my kids again EVER. When I was referring to the little kids i was reffering to my 4 year old and my sisters daughter. My 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old daughers ARE THE PROBLEM. I dont know what I should do? What do you think? The 11 and 13 year old share a room. Also in 2 weeks my sister is driving my 6, 10, 11 and 13 year old to the Britney Spears concert thats 5 1/2 hours away (IN ANOTHER STATE). The tickets were already purchased (NO REFUND) and 350$ PER seat. What should i do to EACH of them? They also made my mother buy these t-shirts they designed for the concert 67$ EACH and buy them 40$ black shorts EACH and bought Brit and Nicole 1

Little kid bumped into my pregnant belly?

 

I was at walmart when these little kids were horsing around and running and the mother was oblivious. Anyway one of the boys(about 8) fell against my cart and it hit my belly. It really hurt, I wanted to yell at them but I very carefully asked him to settle down. His mom finally noticed the chld talking to me and asked what was going on. So I told her, and she had her son say he was sorry. I then told her I was expecting(as I was not showing) and then after that she seemed more concerned. After that the kids started up again. Some children are awful. Whats up with that? What would you have done in this situation?

i have another question.i know i posted another one before but i'm so lost! is there something wrong with me:(?

 

hey…well anyways i was wondering if there was anything wrong with me…like conditionally….i know this sounds weird but well, i have always felt that sometimes i just don’t fit in…and it’s bothering me…so here are some symtoms:

1. i am not aware of my surroundings, especially when i read….for example…once my family and i went grocery shopping and there was a shopping cart that i saw was blocking us from entering the parking spot…so i got out of the car and put it out of the way…then i went back to the car…and my mom was yelling at me, saying why i didn’t remove the second cart…i look back and i see another one there…and i SWEAR that i didn’t see that before!

2. I am obsessed with grammar…like i hate it when my teachers have poor grammar and spelling mistakes…once my teacher handed out a worksheet and his grammar was terrible! so i spent my time crossing out words and fixing the sentences instead of actually working on the problems…

3. I don’t laugh or smile easily…i’m not depressed i know that for sure but i’m not overly joyful either….there are very very few people that can make me laugh really hard…most of the time when i’m around friends and family i just smile…and sometimes i have to force it

4. i’m easily irritable and i don’t know why…i never used to be like this so i don’t know why i am like this now…

5. I sometimes don’t like approaching teachers and asking them for help…because i feel like i’m "bugging" them when i know that it is their job to help me…as well as other students…

6. I sometimes read certain novels so that i can enter a different, fantasy world to get away from reality, but i know the difference.

7. I can cry literally at a drop of a hat…and half of the time it’s for other people, not for me…i cry when i see others in pain, even if it is during a movie or book or something….and my parents often get mad at me when they see me cry because they think i’m being "weak."

8. I don’t really fit in with people my age…i can sometimes get along better with adults….like sometimes one of the my teachers will strive up a conversation before class starts..and i am able to talk to them but when i talk to my peers i can’t think of anything to say…then my friends start accusing me of being a "suck up" or "kissing a**"

so if you could please help me…tell me if i have some undiagnosed condition or am just being a hormonal teenager….lol thanks :)

no rude answers please!

Is Go Cart Racing Fun to do i going there tommore with my mom and Freind's and Fiance?

 

With my mom And freinds and Fiance After Dinner it is a out Door Track 8 Miles long

What were your favorite Christmas memories as a kid that you love and will always love forever?

 

AW Christmas,that is the one holiday that I have always adored and will always adore,I remember as a kid how the family would come together to celebrate the holidays and how we would always go shopping with shopping carts loaded with toys,games,clothes,electronics,
those days may be over but the only memories I have of them are the ones that will be in my heart forever,I also remember sneaking presents from under the Christmas tree and you know the rest of the story, this Christmas will be extra special because of(I can’t say that)
I LOVE Christmas and will always will,
what do you remember besides your mom giving birth to you loving you.
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Mothers day, is sometimes offbeat, will you C/C please?

 

This will be serious
but also our tomorrow fun
as moms sometimes act delirious

We took her for a Tea room brunch
dressed as if going to a ball
We drank Mimosa’s long past lunch

"What else can we do mom to pay you back?"
You are my girls, I have no greater wishes,
But why not finish up here and head to the Go-Cart track?

"But mom yer pregnant you shouldn’t do that
No worries girls, I will just watch
"Good, at the same time yer small, yer belly is fat.

Laughter ensued.

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Sad but loving
My dad came home with flowers and a card
Find your joy on this, your special day.
"Dear woman I know some of your life has been hard

raising two wild ones, who taxed your energy
who pushed every ones limits to the edge
pressing boundaries with their synergy

You were always the better father than I."

iPhone 4 contract unlock!!?

 

Hey guys…I want to get the new iPhone. I’m livin in Europe but my mom will go to the USA in 4 weeks. I know that the iPhone will cost there 199$ for the 16GB version with a contract of at&t. Can i just buy it there and unlock it then here in Germany with a jailbreak to put my own sim cart in it????

ok i bought my mom this ringg….?

 

today i went with my dad and bouhght my mom this ring it cost 98 dollars and had 1/8 cart diamonds (im 13 years old)i came home and gave it to her and she told me it was sterling silver and she didnt want me to waste my money she said i should return it and get my money baq i told her 2 take the money she said no do you think it was the right thing for her to do???

Is resect a forgotten concept?

 

In my house, my parents demand respect. It doesn’t matter how rude they are, they can still make me do whatever they want, just because I’m not a legal adult. Today, my mom pulled a sheet Ot of the closet that wasn’t folded, started yelling at me for it, and I told her I didn’t do it. She yelled at me, made me fold it, and told me she has to cart my (term for butt) around and that I’m always ungrateful. I am grateful and I do thank my parents when they do things for me. Somehow, I never get thanked or any respect. They dont expect too much, it’s just the way they ask that makes me unwilling to do what they want. My mom seems to think just because she gave birth to me, she deserves respect. Last time I checked, respect was earned not given. It also goes two ways. why can they be rude and cuss, just because they’re older. When I say shut up, I’m being a horrible example to my little sister and that’s where she learned how to say shut your nasty (term for butt) mouth (which is a phrase my dad uses daily) or where she learned a term fo feces which every last person in my house uses. Sorry about the rant guys, I just hate double standards and lack of respect. It irritated me when people yell at me and then ask me to do things. Ask nicely, it might just get you somewhere.
I love when people feel the need to point out one little typo just for their two points. What if I had a learning disability? I bet you’d wish you knew the whole story before you spoke.
Well you didn’t have I be a dick head about spelling on a question that was clearly not about spelling. I could understand if there were a lot of mistakes but there isn’t. Please go troll somewhere else

My little nephew is pretty much… HORRIBLE. PLEASE HELP!!:(?

 

Okay, my sister went off and married this guy (after becoming pregnant) that she met at Dillons like, 5 years ago. She was 17ish. Her whole life, she messed up. She chose to. Her parents (my mom) were divorced. Everytime she didn’t get her way, she’d be like "Okay, I’m gonna go to Dad’s then!" so she’d get her way. Through her childhood AND teenage years. Now as an "adult" she has left him with me and my mom. HE IS TERRIBLE. He is rediculously smart. He knows how to do something and get away with it, just like his mom. Like, he can fake trip. Or fake laugh. Or barge into conversations. Or lie. Or act like he knows everything. He is adorable, I’ll admit, but his personality, my GOD. And hes like, 5. He will scream just so people think I hurt him. he makes me want to HURT HIM. I can’t even describe the way he acts. Normally, I love kids. I think they are soo sweet and angelic. But he isn’t. If hate wasn’t so frowned upon, I would hate him.

My mom? She is BLIND to this. My family that has seen this side of him, think he is awful. My mom is really close with her sister, and I talked to her, and she thinks my nephew is going to be a really good criminal. She wasn’t joking. They would agree to every word of this. My mom sees him as a perfect child. I don’t even know what to do anymore. Today, I went grocery shopping with him, my Mom and my friend. He would take random things, plop them in the cart, and my mom wouldn’t care. Sometimes she’d be like " no, put it back." but he’d be like "NOOOOO I WANT IT!!" and she’d be like *sigh* okay…
I hate it sooooo much.. even my friend thought it was rediculous. He gets everything he wants. Anything. I try telling my mom about my feelings, and she thinks I’m talking back. I can’t even talk to her without getting in trouble. My dad screams at me about everything.. so I can’t talk to him. One time when I did, he told me "I know, but we just have to ignore it."

I.Am.Done.Ignoring.This.
I need some serious advice..

p.s. My mom wants family counceling. THATS FUNNY, maybe if she wouldn’t be doing this, we wouldn’t have a problem. I feel like she loves him more than me. I’m told that isn’t possible, but my Lord, she acts like it…. :(

i am absolutely hysterical. someone please help me.?

 

i am about 6 week pregnant.
when i first told my guy about it, he was scared like crazy of course, and so was i.
two days later, he said he was over the initial shock and was now getting even a little excited to have a child, and that was honestly the best feeling i can ever remember having: to know that he wouldn’t back out on me, because i am against abortions, and he said he would help me take responsibility for what happened to us.
then, a couple more days later, he called me to tell me that he’d been really thinking about everything, and how we needed to think rationally about our situation.
i am 19 years old and he is 22. he has a full-time job for an hour, but i do not have a job right now because i am in college. i come from a more "wealthy" family, though, and he doesn’t. i’m not saying that my family is uber rich, because we’re not, but both of my parents are doctors. and it also doesn’t mean that his family is dirt poor, but his dad was a marine and his mom is a cop.
he lives on his own and pays for everything himself on his own income, and everything right now for me is pretty much still paid for by my parents.
anyways, i thought things were going amazingly that night he told me he was excited, but then everything changed that next time when he said we needed to speak rationally.
bottom line is we agreed to get me an abortion because of financial problems. i’m sure that his parents and my parents would help, i know they would, but we agreed that we don’t want to have to depends on them forever. we don’t want our baby to ever go without warm clothes, without toys it will want, without anything that it will need.. so we decided that the abortion would be the best thing, since i couldn’t carry a baby for nine months and then just give it away for adoption.
i was fine with the abortion thing for a few weeks, and it still logically makes sense to me, but now.. it’s just like i see babies everywhere. baby carriers, little 2 year olds, kids in shopping carts at the store, baby sections in stores, baby commercials on tv, and i hear about baby stories all the time. it’s not that i never did before, but now it’s just all standing out to me, like it’s saying that i need to have this baby and take the responsibility that i was fine with taking in the beginning.
my guy still thinks it would be the best to get an abortion, and even though he says this, i know he would still be there for me if i decided not to get an abortion. he would be there, he wouldn’t leave me hanging. but he says that an abortion would be the best thing for all three of us: me, him, and our unborn child.

the thing is, my feelings have started to change again. i was absolutely fine with the idea of getting an abortion at first, even though i was against it, because it made the most sense.. but now, it’s just i think EVERYday, hundreds of times a day about how i am going to feel afterwards. if i got an abortion, i know i would never be the same anymore. i’d pretend to have fun, and maybe i could have fun with friends and my guy like old times, but there would still be that one thing in the back of my mind haunting me forever. i wouldn’t become "unpregnant", he and i would just be the parents of a dead baby. and i don’t know how i could live with myself knowing that i took away a life that hadn’t even been given the chance to be lived. what if my baby has real potential? i don’t want to go through the rest of my life having to explain to possible future husbands about how our babies wouldn’t be my first. i don’t want to see babies in shopping carts at the store and think that could have been me, happy with a little boy or girl. i don’t want to hide something so powerful and hanging over me for the rest of my life, because i know that i would regret it and i’ve looked up so many websites on how other women have gotten over abortions, and they all say that there is major depression, regret, hurt, and that their futures are just not as happy as they could have been.

i was fine with the abortion thing at first, but now i’m not. i just don’t know how to break it to my guy, because he still thinks i’m fine with an abortion. i know he wouldn’t back out on me if i told him i was going to have the child, but i know he’d be disappointed in me for not trying to be strong and think about what might be best for the three of us.

someone please help me because i have no idea what to do.

i hit my head really hard ?

 

about 2 months ago at night some friends and i used some illegal drugs (cannabis) and i was riding on the back of a golf cart (with 4 seats, 2 on the back and they had those railings that go along the sides and the corners and stoped in the middle so you get in and out.) well im riding on the back standing up holding on to the bars. we were all in a different mindset because of the drugs. but we rode up the street a little and hanged u-turn, started down to a circle culdasac which is downhill a little, well were flying down there pretty fast the driver slams on brakes and turns sharp to the right on a dime i fly my left leg hangs over bar with my foot pinned under the seat and i fall over and like hang after my head smacks the asphalt going about 20mph i dont get knocked out, i get to my feet i feel dazed and light-headed no blood or anything but my neck and back of head ache bad. when i get home in the middle of the night i have my mom drive me to the ER i get a cat scan and temp neck brace.doctors said everything is fine til this day my neck hurts but im worried somthing is still wrong .and now i have been going to the chiropractor twice a week since . is there anything the could have overlooked or is there anything else i should be worried about even though it was 2 months ago? please let me know……thanks

How to deal with Helicopter parents in Adulthood?

 

When I was growing up my mom and granny weren’t like how they are today. I could walk through a small patch of woods to a friends house,walk all over the neighborhood ( was told to never talk to strangers,let them touch me or get near their vehicle) If I fell down and skint my knee, I would just wash it ,put a bandage on and get back outside. Then when I became a teen they started to get a bit overbearing,suddenly it was no friends over to the house,no going to other houses or churches. Then as an adult it was no opening the doors unless one of us is watching (first floor houses) no going outside at night. I’m 29 years old and I can’t even go out of my bedroom without granny standing there,use the bathroom without granny telling me what to do when I get out or even take out the trash without granny watching me.If I cook a microwave dinner she stands in the kitchen watching me. If I turn my bedroom light on after 8 pm she’ll open my door crying saying "are you ok? Why is your lights on" I mean she really does cry. As for mom, when we go grocery shopping she’ll scream my name out loud if I walk out of eye sight (even to the next aisle). It’s embarrassing :( If I put something in the cart,granny will look at it and put it back and won’t say why. If I do buy something to eat,she’ll try to eat it then complain about it being too salty,hard or sugary (she has no teeth) If I spend more than 2 minutes in the bathroom,they’ll open the door. If I’m on my cell,they’ll stand there wanting to know who I’m talking to and want to talk to them.They act like they can’t even do simple stuff like put batteries in the remote .If I take out the trash they want to watch me walk to the end of the drive and talk to them on a cell phone . None of us have any mental problems or disabilities in any sense so how does one deal with helicopter parents in adulthood? btw, I’m 29, they get worst as I get older too :(
They never did this to my other siblings and as for the moving out I really can’t afford to move out I don’t make that much money.
I don’t exactly want to work longer hours for more money nor do I want to get married just to get out.

I am VERY curious as to how some women who?

 

are fat as hell, looks like slobs with mickey mouse shirts on and cheap pants and 3 kids can afford to drive new vehicles (yes Im jealous) I was at walmart and you see it everywhere, fat moms with brand new suvs, tons of crap in the cart and kids who dont listen. I keep myself slim and healthy and Im a good mom whose kid listens…Im jealous because Im starting to think that to have the nice mom things, you have to let yourself go and not care about hygiene, then your man will buy you a new vehicle and house…
I am picking on fat women right now because it takes effort to stay slim…but it takes nothing to be fat, except a cart full of junk food…and they ALL cant have medical disorders!
Maybe not all fat women are like this, Im just talking about the ones who ARE.
IAM TALKING ABOUT THE FAT STAY HOME MOMS WHO DO NOTHING…NOT ONES WHO WORK, BUT THE ONES WHOSE HUSBANDS DO ALL THE WORK AND THEY DO NOTHING BUT SIT AROUND ALL DAY AND SMOKE AND WATCH TV. I KNOW WOMEN LIKE THIS!

Have you ever randomly tossed stuff into people's carts at the store?

 

I was doing that today, walk past, toss some brown rice into someone else’s cart "I don’t want this anymore". I tossed some noodles into some old guy’s cart, he was a little irratated. I said to a kid you want some candy? and then tossed a bag of candy into the cart his mom was like "Excuse me what are you doing" I laughed and told her and her son to "Go —- your son, —–" she tossed that bag of candy at my back hard. I did that to like six people today, the store manager was this 50 something year old lady and some very large bag boys, she told me to "Please leave, now sir!"
I knocking boxes of stuff off the shelves, as I was leaving, the box boy shoved him. Basically the pushed me out the store. hahahaa

how much noise does a child need to make before you as the parent should apologize to nearby adults?

 

My baby was pretty quiet on her first airplane ride to visit relatives, except for about 30 seconds of crying as her ears popped. It was loud and in a contained space it sounded louder to me. I apologized to the guy next to us for all the noise when we landed and he acted surprised, and said the baby had behaved very well, seemed happy, so there was no need to apologize.

A bit later my daughter started learning to babble. I was grocery shopping at Costco and babbling back to her and saying mom stuff, like "who is my beautiful baby? ba ba ba!" and so forth. The kid was wide awake and in a really great mood, 6 months old, really smiley, laughing and answering "ba ba ba" back to me in her stroller. You know the stuff, and it’s new to her (our only child) so I was eating it up that she was imitating me. Anyway, a lady told me to try harder to keep the baby quiet because it was bothering her.

I’d say in terms of decibels we were being way quieter than we were on the plane, and Costco is a large, warehouse-style store with large open rows, where sound is absorbed readily. Also, on the plane she was clearly unhappy/in pain, which you’d think would bother people more, whereas in Costco she was making happy baby noises. They were not shrieks at all. It was cooing, laughing, and ba ba ba.

On the plane maybe people behave better toward infants because they know there’s nowhere to go anyway, so they may as well be polite? Or maybe people out grocery shopping tend to be in worse moods on average than people flying to Miami for the weekend? Anyway, what is an acceptable noise level for a baby before you cart them back to the car and try shopping again another day?

I have really weird dreams. Explain?

 

I started writing down my dreams ’cause I felt like some of the stuff i dream about comes true in real life (Kind of weird i know). But after about a month of writing my dreams down i went back and read through them. I didn’t realize it but most of them are kind of weird. And i’m not talking about like being chased by a giant banana or something. Although in one i did get chased by someone in a bear custom. So if someone could explain them, please do.

1. I was on a school field trip to wal-mart. I fell into a random whole in the middle of the parking lot and some guy that didn’t go to my school but was my age helped me out. I told him as a thank you i would do something for him. So he told me to help him steal something from a store close to wal-mart. He said that the store stole it from a guy and that he was just getting it back. So finnaly i agreed to help him. We snuck into the store and got the thing and i escaped as fast as i could. The bus for the field trip had already left so my brother was their to pick me up. I got in the car but relized that the guy was still in the store so i got out. But my dog who had come with my brother followed me so i took him back to the car. My bro and the guy, who’s name is Daniel got out of the car. Daniel explained he noticed i had left and came looking for me but found my brother. Then his parents showed up and my mom showed up and they started talking and i ended up tranferring schools to his school so i could help him be theif.

2. (The next day i had this dream) I was in my new school with Daniel and another of my new best friends. They both liked me. But didn’t like each other (though in the dream i didn’t relize that Daniel liked me too.) i had gotten a weird text the same day a new guy moved to our school. Daniel sat a few rows over, my other bf sat to the right of me and the new kid sat diagonally behind me. I looked over at my bf and he smiled and winked at me. I turned away blushing but when i turned away i saw Daniel glaring at bf. I looked over at bf who was just smiling at Daniel. I heard the new guy almost laugh so i turned and looked at him, he gave me and big smile and i blushed again. I looked over at Daniel who looked over at me at the same time. We both turned away and i looked back over at him and he was smiling down at his paper. I got another weird text and told Daniel by mouthing the words. And asked to go to the bathroom so i could read it. But since i was new to the school i got lost. It took me a while to find my way back to class. (then it ended)

3. Me and my brothers were going to an amusement park. We met this girl and two other boys who were from a different world. Me and the girl got on a giant ski lift that went all over the park and it started breaking and going backwards and stuff. I freaked out cause i knew she was doing it and she wanted to destroy the world. But i couldn’t get off. (I don’t remeber the rest.) In the end she died.

4. I met a guy on vacation who turned out to be this like wanted criminal though he had never done anything wrong and was just framed. After i was seen with him i was expected to be his partner in crime and we had to go on the run. We went to this abandoned wearhouse where he introduced me to some of his crimainal friends. We stayed in the wear house for a few days, until somehow are names were cleared. The day we were leaving to go home. Some one started chasing us in a bear custome. We jumped on a golf cart and rode around the ware house being chased by a fake bear. Finnaly the bear stopped and took off his head to reveal my old best friend Dakota who had failed a grade so i haven’t seen her in like two years.

Are these normal dream or do i just have a very large imagination (which i already know i do so is that the cause of these dreams?) There are lots more but i’m tired of typing. Why do i have such dreams? Plus would the first two make a good book?

Would this be fun if ur a teen visiting a city? what would be fun for you?

 

Im trying to be the cool big city Aunt. LOL ……rrrrright. My 16 year old niece lives out in the boonies and has all her life. She don’t get out much. I live in the nearest major city She has been to the mall here SEVERAL times so that would be boring for her.

She is coming down for a week and I want to make sure she has fun, and experiences the world outside her small hick town with me supervising her. I know adults are not that fun :-) But I want to make sure her mom will let her come over again. What are some suggestions?

Go cart track, motor boats, a small amusement park. Anything cultural from different countries, (china town). She hasn’t been exposed to different cultures. The view points of the city. The electric train we have she has never been on and she is very excited to ride that. It takes you everywhere. The huge movie theaters, lazer tag, and the lazer light show. I was also thinking an Underage night club. ( I think her mom would not like that)

When I am at work and she needs to hang at my place. She is excited I have a pool at my complex that she can hang out at all day if she wants. Plus she will have my prepaid cell, and a laptop to use so she can contact her BF, me, her family and friends if she needs something. Plus cable, and a kitty.
Would that be fun er no?

Is it rude to address a parent about a bad behavior their kid is doing in a store?

 

Okay so yesterday I was food shopping and this mom with two young children was also shopping. Her little boy was crying and screaming the entire time. This I was okay with, I mean I know kids have their tantrums and all that stuff. But when we were in line to check out (she was two rows away from me), her son had a ball he kept bouncing all over the place and then proceeded to play ‘basketball’ with the ball and my shopping cart. He kept throwing the ball into my cart, I’d take it out and give it to him, and he kept doing it. I was so embarassed, I didn’t know if I should tell the kid to stop and everyone around me would think I was a jerk picking on a little kid. Or if I should go and tell the mom, who wasn’t even paying attention. Eventually, the boy’s sister told him to stop and he stopped. But I was standing there like a moron not knowing what to do and everyone was looking lol What would you have done?
Jon oh wow great idea – I would just worry about the mother than snapping at me or something lol You just never know with people

How do I keep my shop under control when at the flea market this Saturday?

 

Couldn’t figure out how to word that. Basically I was at the flea market last weekend and I’m going again this weekend selling stuff. Last weekend (a few days ago xD) was crazy when I’d get 4+ people in my 8 ft by 8ft little square of selling space because of some of the pricier things I was selling. I didn’t really care if little kids would cart of some small toys, which they didn’t, but my eyes were glued on the people looking at the DVD’s and video games and systems. I kept a count of every video game I had and how many of each and nothing was stolen, but someone a few down gets her Xbox games stolen a lot. Much of the buyers do not know English, so I need to help say how much it is using my fingers and coins and such.

How do I keep my flea market section controlled without chaos while helping the people who are buying and keeping an eye on the people looking at the video games and other things? I was with my mom yesterday but this time I will be on my own. I’m 17.

Any tips? I tried typing out every single video game and small video game system I had neatly and printing that out, but hardly anyone looked at it, so I just put the video games out.

Thanks. (: