Why would you spank your kid in public?
The other day my daughter was acting up at the store. I told here to calm down. A few minutes later she started up again. I had a cart full of stuff p...
The other day my daughter was acting up at the store. I told here to calm down. A few minutes later she started up again. I had a cart full of stuff put the cart off to the side and said were going home for your spanking. I took her home walk in the house and put ger over my knee.
Bare bottom 10 swats.
I don’t wait because they will forget what they did to earn a spanking. I don’t beat them, just enough to hurt and make them understand that they did something wrong.
Personally, I think 10 swats on a bare bottom is too harsh for acting up.
I wouldn’t spank in public but I wouldn’t leave a whole cart of stuff either….I would manage the issue in a hurry…
I don’t and wouldn’t spank my kid in public but i also wouldn’t leave a cart full of groceries in the store to go home and do a 5 minute spanking. If i were the type of person to spank their kids (i’m not, i disagree with it) i would finish the necessary shopping quickly then go home and do it.
i wouldn’t spank in public nor would i spank bare bottom
Yep. They need to learn that acting out in public is not ok just like it is at home. And why should I have to leave my errands because my kid is being bad? One spank in the bathroom is enough and I can be on my merry way…
No matter what the form of discipline is..i think it’s more effective if you discipline right when the bad behavior is happening instead of waiting until you are home or somewhere else and your child has maybe forgotten what he or she was doing that was bad.
This way the correlation between bad behavior and discipline is stronger..and a child is more likely to think twice before being bad.
10 swats might be a little excessive. You might want to consider that spankings are meant to discipline not punish. Discipline teaches children a lesson, punishment inflicts pain. One, maybe 2 swats and then into bed. But ten?
If you had groceries, you should inform an employee, otherwise leaving a cart is fine.
Depends on the age of your child and what they did. My 3 year old let go of my hand the other day and started to run away in the parking lot, ya wanna bet I grabbed him up real quick and gave him 2 good swats on his butt! Now for being a smart mout or acting up in the store, I try redirection, and threatening time out or no tv or a certain toy. And sometimes I just have to leave them with a babysitter while I run errands! lol At 2-3 years old they are too young to remember an hour later what they did to deserve a spanking in the 1st place. So if that is your discipline method of choice, then it has to be done after the child does the undesirable behavior. If the child is older then they will remember what they did wrong, so it may work.
It depends on what they were doing. I’ve had to spank my 4 y/o only once in public. We were at a restaurant and she was spitting her ice cream onto the table, and I told her to stop. She did it again so I took her ice cream away. Well….she didn’t like that and threw the biggest tantrum I have ever seen. I carried her out of the restaurant fireman-style, swatting her butt the whole way. Now normally, I would never think about doing something like that, but she was going to hurt herself (or someone else) with the way she was throwing herself around and kicking!
i say discipline when and where the need warrants. if you wait till you get home they will not remember what they did and not understand why theyre being spank especially when theyre young.
10 bare bottom swats? A bit extreme right? That was your anger taking over…good job.
Hypothetically (since I don’t have kids and don’t want any), if the child is being an evil little hellion, I would spank in public. Nothing major but a couple smacks.
personally, i wouldnt do it in public. to make her stop
id giver her a quick pop on her hands. and tell her
if she doesnt stop that shell get a spanking whenever
she gets home.
i find that it works(:
good luck.
Absolutely not. There are much better ways to handle the situation.
Someday when your older and reflecting back on your life, I bet you’ll wish you didnt beat your kids
You ‘parents’ should be ashamed of yourselves! By smacking them you’re telling them that violence is an acceptable form of sorting out conflict! How can you do that to a child and still expect them to love you! Its a horrible practice and really should be outlawed!
I wouldn’t spank in public out in the open, but I would take my child in a bathroom and spank them. Spanking needs to be administered as soon as possible after the offense or the child will forget why they are being spanked, unless they are older than 5 or so.
Spanking is no way to discipline. Please don’t spank your child in public or in private, unless you want them to hate you.
Poor child. There are way better ways to discipline children, instead of hitting. Oh, and for those who spank in the bathroom, don’t think the other people who are in there would ever want to hear a child being beaten. If your going to be mean, take her home and do it. Don’t disrupt the bathroom.